Build Me Up Just to Tear Me Down

There was a time in your life when your mom doubted you. She had watched Emery destroy towers of toys and blocks and laugh so much, but yet when she tried to build a tower for you to destroy, you just wanted to take one toy or block at a time and play with it. Your moms thought, "Well I guess he just won't like to build and knock things down."


What a silly thought that was. She need only it give you a little more time because once you became interested in blocks and towers and building and destroying, it became one of your favorite things to do. 

On Sundays, your mom would build foam towers for you in the nursery and you would destroy them with so much joy. Then at home, your parents could barely get a tower started before you swooped in to knock it over. 

Your mom and dad loved watching you build and destroy because even though it was such a typical toddler boy activity, it made their hearts so happy to see you learning and having so much fun!


Baby Brain Freeze

Do you remember the ball out your parents got you for your first birthday? Basically is was just an inflatable pool and 100 plastic balls that barely covered half of the bottom of the pool. But you loved it. 


What was especially great was the fact that now you also had a pool for the summer. 

It was another nice day outside when your mom decided to test out your little pool. Unfortunately, your parents didn't have a water hose and your dad was away, so your mom lugged a cooler full of water back and forth to try to fill the pool. Similarly to the balls, the water barely covered half the bottom. And it was cold. 

Your mom had brought out toys. You played with your boar for a minute but the combination of the cold water and lure of the birds in the yard made you quickly dismiss any more pool time. Your mom brought your toy car outside and you rode around until your dad got home. 


Earlier in the day, your mom had blended a smoothies minimum and frozen some of it to make Popsicles. It was the perfect time for you to try your first Popsicle: hot day with lots of water nearby to rinse off the mess afterwards. 

You refused to return to the pool so your mom put you in the cooler and let you have your Popsicle. You seemed to like it, but after a pretty big bite, you experienced another first: brain freeze. 


Your face was so sad. Never had you had such an influx of opposing emotions. You loved and hated that Popsicle all at once. 

Even though it was a rough first go, your parents knew there would be more Popsicles in your future--they would just have to teach you how to eat them slowly. 

Beautiful Day

After such a tough winter, your parents were ecstatic when spring finally arrive. They are typically outside people, but a rough Ohio winter will make you crave being in the sunshine and warm air. Once the weather was nice enough, your mom seldom let a day go by without spending at least a little time outside. Even if it was just a small walk past the neighbor's house and back. 


So you can imagine the excitement as the Memorial weekend after your first birthday arrive and the forecast was sunny and in the 70's! 

It turned out to be such a great weekend. You were struggling with teething but being outside made you forget your aches. 

That Friday, we joined Sarah and Hayden for a park date and then Chick-fil-a. You got to play in the play area for the first time, and your mom had to chase you up into the play area and help you down the slide. It was funny to see the other kids' moms watching, wondering what in the world an adult was doing going down the slide. 

Saturday, your dad had practice, and you weren't in the best of moods so your mom decided to take you out of the house. You ran errands with her, and ended up at the mall. There you played with the coin-slot cars. No need to put in any quarters. You had a blast without the machines even moving. 



The day was beautiful and your mom didn't want it to be wasted, so after the mall, you two set out for a random park your mom found on her phone. As you got closer to the park, your mom realized it was a neighborhood park--which was awesome because there was no one there! You chased birds, swang in the swings, and briefly played on the play set there. Most of all, you just liked being in the sunshine. 



You, of course, were exhausted after this. You quickly fell asleep in the car. But the day was just too nice to not be enjoyed by the whole family, so after your dad was done with practice, the three of you went to Portage Lake State Park. 

You weren't alone at this park, but it wasn't too crowded. You played on the play set, sliding with your mom and dad. 


You also got to walk on the beach of Portage Lakes. There were several kids in the water. You seemed interested in going in but unfortunately, you didn't have a swimsuit with you. 


The sun was getting hot, so you walked around a bit more and then headed home having fully taken advantage of the day. 



"It's a beautiful day, don't let it get away."
U2

Contractions and Concerts

Do you remember your first concert?

You, your mom, and your dad traveled all the way to Columbus to see one of your mom's favorite bands, The Apache Relay, and to take your dad to one of his favorite restaurants, Jason's Deli. Your mom and dad were so excited to take you, but as you know, "the best laid schemes o' mice an' men..."

Let's just recap this unexpectedly adventurous trip. First, there was the gas station. You were getting mighty comfortable on your mom's bladder just as the car needed more gas. At the gas station, your mom went in to pay because they had a coupon. Coupons for gas don't come along very often, you know, so you definitely have to take advantage when you get the chance. As your mom came out of the store and started walking to the pump, a car began backing up. She saw it, knew she still had plenty of room and kept walking. The only problem was the car wasn't stopping. But neither was your mom.

Her thoughts at the time, "They won't hit me. I'm pregnant."

Your dad's thoughts as he watched from the car, "That car is going to kill my wife and son."

Your dad blew the car horn just as your mom stepped out of the car's path, who I think may have still be backing up. But in the end, everyone was safe. Your dad was just a little shaken up (also because he had just been shaken down for money from a sketchy man in a van...).

Back on the road, everything was going well...until...traffic. Backed up as far as either of your parents could see. At no point was it stop-and-go traffic, but it was slow and lasted for a while. The time of the concert was creeping close, and your parents still wanted to eat at Jason's.

After making it through all the construction and a switch from 3 lanes to 2, your parents finally made it to Columbus, and they were so excited about dinner (Jason's has free soft serve. Who wouldn't be excited?!?). It was a little after 7:00 and past time for the doors at the concert to open as they rounded the corner into a fairly new shopping/parking/office area. They quickly noticed that there was no light inside the Jason's. Your mom ran up to the door, and sure enough, this was some sort of fancy Jason's that closed at 4:00 on Sundays. Lame.

But not all hope was lost. You, your mom, and your dad wouldn't be able to eat Jason's before the concert, but possibly after, as the next closest one closed at 10. (Fortunately, Apache Relay only had one album, so they weren't expecting to miss much, even if they had to leave the concert early).

After getting a snack, you headed to the concert—late, but your mom and dad didn't care about the opening band anyway. But when you got there, the first band had not even started! And didn't start until 8:00. And then they played for an hour. Putting Apache Relay on after 9:00. The hopes of going to Jason's were fading fast.

Adding to the mix, as the opening band played, your mom began having contractions. They were small, painless ones, but then your mom started questioning her decision to bring you in the first place.

When Apache Relay finally began, your mom was excited. And they were great. Your mom sang and bounced along with the music, taking breaks to sit down with you every once in a while. Your mom felt bad that your dad didn't get to eat at his favorite restaurant, but he wouldn't let your mom leave the concert early to make it before the next closest Jason's closed. He really loves your mom.

It was getting late as the concert ended, and your folks were tired and hungry, so you left pretty quickly. And the last part of the adventure began. After getting lost with the outdated GPS on one-way streets and being flicked off by a crazy driver, your parents finally made it to a Steak 'n' Shake. But while in the drive through, your mom forgot to order her hotdog without mustard. You know how much she hates mustard. But again, your dad being the amazing man he is, took it inside and got her a new one.

As you all finally headed home, your parents were exhausted. It had been quite a day. A rough day. But in the end, they really enjoyed getting to spend time with you and each other, even if it wasn't the perfect outing they had hoped for. When you are with your favorite people, even the roughest of days aren't so bad.


Now You Won't Smell Bad

Your mom has some pretty amazing friends. Friends that love her and loved you even while you were in her tummy. About two months before you entered the world, Aunt Jessica got a bunch of your moms friends together, and they planned a baby shower for you and your mom.

And get this—it was book themed.

And it just happened to be on Dr. Suess's birthday, which your mom thought was quite appropriate.

So you know how you have the greatest library of any kid on the block? Well, a lot of that is thanks to your baby shower! You got so many great books. Too many to even begin to list.

And the blessings didn't stop there. You and your mom shared one of the best meals you had eaten since you first entered your moms tummy. Your mom says she thinks it was even the best meal she had eaten since moving to Ohio. No Joke. Pulled pork, mashed potatoes, mac & cheese, black-eyed peas, green beans. Plus, puppy chow and cake balls. And even a fruit pizza.

There were fun activities. People guessed what you were going to look like and exactly what day you would be born. There were even a few mad-lib stories about the day of your birth. In addition, your mom's friends blessed her with words of encouragement and love.

Then to top it off, everyone brought things to help your mom and dad take care of you.
There were:
Clothes...so you wouldn't always be naked.
Bowls, cups, and bottles...so you would be well fed.
Tubs and soap...so you wouldn't smell bad.
Diapers and wipes...to help keep you clean.
Blankets and swaddles...to keep you warm.
And so, so much more!

It truly was an incredible day that solidified in your mom's mind that God had brought her and your dad here to Ohio and that no matter what, you would always have people to care for and love you.

You hanging out with Hylan and Emery.
Your personalized bookmarks made just for you by Beth.
Elise, Sarah, and Lindsay came to hang out with you.


Your Parents' Parents

Do you remember the first time you met your grandparents? It was a week before Christmas when you first met the Murrays. They flew into town with your Aunt Jordan, and as soon as your mom got off work, the two of you headed home for you to meet them for the first time. And they were so excited to meet you! 


You were just a tiny little boy and still in your mom's tummy, but it was still so great to get to see them and hang out with them. And since Christmas was near, they brought you lots of cool clothes and helped to get you some of the things you needed, like a crib! (Yep, they're the reason you're not sleeping in a dresser drawer!)

Then, about a month later, the Tafts flew into town and you got to meet them. They too were excited to meet you. You were a little bigger at that point, but still in your mom's tummy. They brought you lots of fun books to help get your collection going. They also helped to get some of the things you needed, like your highchair. (Yep, they're the reason you don't have to sit on the floor and eat!) It was very exciting.

You didn't get to meet your Aunt Alyssa at this point or your Grandpa Tanner. But those fun things would come later.

Christmas Firsts

Many people may not count it, but your first Christmas was spent in your mom's tummy. And it was quite a first Christmas.


First, let's reminisce on your first dance—you and little Emery Mae. Of course, she was still in her mom's tummy too, but it was quite a sight. You two were bouncing and shaking, and I think there may have even been a little shimmying happening (mostly from Emery; her mom taught her well). 


It was the next day that you experienced your first snow. What was particularly exciting about this first snow is that it was so close to Christmas. Neither your mom or your dad had ever had the white Christmas that you hear about in all the classic Christmas songs and movies. So as they excitedly watched the snow fall, you shivered a little as the winter cold was really starting to settle in. 

Just a few days later and Christmas was here!! And the snow was still around! A little icy and a lot muddier, but still white enough to count. That day, you, your dad, your mom, and Wolf and Caesar enjoyed just hanging out, eating turkey, and opening gifts. It was such a great and relaxing first Christmas as a family!

And let's not leave out what happened just a week later...the New Year! The year of your birth! The year your mom and dad would finally get to see your little face and dress you in all the cute plaid shirts they couldn't resist buying. They were so excited, and as that new year progressed, their excitement only grew.

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