Archive for 2012

The Day You Got Your Name

It was a surprisingly cold the day you got your name. "It's suppose to be sunny," your mom told your dad.


But she didn't really care what the weather was like. She was just making small talk to avoid the nerves. The day was finally here. You had grown and developed and had now reached the halfway mark in your mom's tummy. This meant it was time for your parents to learn who you were and to name you.

You woke up early that morning, almost as if you knew and were ready to get your name.

Your parents arrived at the hospital to find several people in the waiting room of the exam office. But after what seemed like hours, it was finally your parents' turn. 

In the office, the nurse asked your mom and dad if they wanted to know what you were—a little boy or girl. Ready to give you a name, "We want to know," they said. 

As soon as the nurse put the scope on your moms tummy, she knew. "Can you tell what it is?" she asked.

Scared to guess wrong, your parents just stared at the screen. 

The nurse pointed to an area, and "It's a boy!" flashed up on the screen. Your dad gasped with excitement, and your mom just smiled. 

And that was it. Your parents had loved the same name for two years, and from that moment on, you would be known as Mr. Silas Liles Murray.

It's you!
Your first onesie and outfit.

Kicking It Off

It was the day after your mom helped to throw a large fundraiser for her job that she first felt it. It felt like a few small bubbles in her tummy, and she had no idea what was going on. "It could be gas," she thought, but she just wasn't convinced. She grabbed her phone and began to search for what it could possibly be. Blogs and forums all said the same thing: it was YOU.

It was another week or so before she felt you again. You weren't super consistent in the beginning, but with each day that passed, you became more and more active. You were kicking, punching, dancing, having fun. Again, it was becoming more and more real to your mom and dad that you were on your way.

After a couple of weeks of you being more active, your mom noticed that you had specific times that you liked to move the most. First of all, there was your morning shift. Between 9am-11am, you would stretch and start waking up. You'd move a little throughout the day, but then, between 10pm-midnight, you would get crazy! You'd start moving all over the place. You're mom says it even felt like you were doing flips in her tummy. Your mom and dad thought, 'Well if this is any indication of our future, looks like we'll be having some late nights!'

Oh the Places You Went...

Now, its understandable that you may not remember many of the things you, your mom, and your dad did together while you were still in the womb, so let these stories jog your memory...


About a month after you were discovered in your mom's tummy, it was time for her birthday. Your dad, being the great husband that he is, wanted your mom to be able to do whatever she wanted. So you all went to the Cleveland Zoo. Your mom loves animals, so she was so excited! Plus, she knew that you would probably love animals one day too.




Next, there was the time that you went with your mom, dad, and their friends Sarah and Steven to Beard Con. Your dad had been growing out his beard for over a year, and Steven had been growing out his for quite a while too. Your mom and Sarah went along to support their husbands as they competed at the illustrious facial hair festival/convention in Columbus. Your dad and Steven were fantastic, but there were lots of good beards present. Beards that had been growing for much longer. Though they did not place in the competition, they had fun and began scheming for next year. Your mom and Sarah began scheming too, for, as you know, there was also a kids' bearding competition and a women's bearding competition in which you and your mom would compete the next year. 



Then, you went with your mom and dad to hang out with their Bible study one Saturday. It was a fun day full of fall festivities. You went through a corn maze (both your mom and dad found hidden toy hydrants that they got to turn in for a prize!) and went for a hay ride to pick pumpkins! Plus, you were there when your mom got to hold a baby bunny. It was so warm and fuzzy, and it made your mom excited to have a baby of her own—YOU! Then everyone returned to Sarah and Mark's house for finger foods and hot dogs cooked over a bonfire. After eating, everyone carved their pumpkins they bought. It was quite a fun time!!


That's enough memory jogging for now. There will be many more stories to tell you before long.

Tell the World That...

So after your mom and dad allowed the news about you to sink in, they began to tell their friends and family. And the responses that followed were quite entertaining...


Your mom's friend, Katie: "Wow! Your my first friend to get pregnant on purpose!"

Your parents' friend, Caleb: "You know, when you really are pregnant, no one's going to believe you. Wait. You really are?!"

Most of your mom's awesome friends: "I can't wait to buy it stuff!"

And your parents had big plans on how to announce to everyone that you were on your way. At first, they were going to do a parody video, but more on that later. Then, your mom toyed around with the idea of an announcement haiku. But finally, they decided to go with the obscure carve a fetus in a pumpkin method, and it was fantastic! 


And baby, know that you are loved. Family and friends alike were so excited for you. They, like your mom and dad, loved you already, even though they had never met you.

And Then There Were Three...

Your mom felt sick. She knew it was a possibility that you were in her tummy, so she wanted to make sure before she took any medicines. She showed up at home for her lunch break. "I just have to know," she said to your dad.

The test was unclear, but she was pretty sure it was a no. Your dad was too, but then your dad, being the man he is, decided to read the directions of the test to make sure. He came into the room with your mom. "Where's the test?" he asked.

"In the trash," she replied.

He explains that even if the test shows a faint second line, you might be in your mom's tummy.

They are excited, but decide to wait a couple of days and then take a test again. Though it was still slightly unclear, the second line was there. That's when they knew. You were here.

Fast forward five weeks, and your mom and dad are at the hospital, getting ready to see you for the first time. Up to this point, everything seems unreal. Your mom has been a little sick, but nothing compared to your Aunt Jessica, making it difficult to comprehend that you're really here.

But then they see you. Your moms eyes start watering and won't stop. Your dad just smiles. They don't know what to do or say. They see your tiny heart beating. It beats so fast. Then, as they keep watching, you move, as if to say, "Mom, its too early for this. Let me sleep." It is real. You are here, and the Murray family grows to three.




(Five if you count your furry brothers, Wolf and Caesar.)

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